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Sunday, September 2, 2012

Week 1: Verse 10 Explained

Verse 10: A wife of noble character who can find?  She is worth far more than rubies.

The hebrew word used in the place of noble was, "chayil".  It means, "might, strength, power, able, valiant, virtuous, valor, army, host, forces, riches, substance, wealth."  This word occurs, "244 times in the Hebrew Old Testament".  In the majority of the cases the word meant, "strength, army, and wealth".

Other words used in place of NOBLE in other bible versions:
  • Good: "to be desired or approved of"
  • Virtuous: "having or showing high moral standards, chaste"
  • Worthy: "deserving effort, attention, or respect"
  • Capable: "having the ability, fitness, or quality necessary to do or achieve a specified thing"
  • Intelligence: "the ability to acquire knowledge and skills"
  • Competent: "having the necessary ability, knowledge, or skill to do something successfully"
  • Excellent: "extremely good, outstanding" 
  • Strong Character: "strong mental and moral qualities"

The Proverbs 31 Woman:
  1. A wife whose husband desires and approves of her.
  2. A wife who has high moral standards.
  3. A wife who is chaste (abstaining from extramarital sexual intercourse).
  4. A wife who deserves her husband's effort, attention, or respect.
  5. A wife who has the ability, fitness, and quality necessary to be a wife and mother.
  6. A wife who has the necessary ability to learn new ways to be a better wife and mother.
  7. A wife who is extremely good.
  8. A wife who is outstanding.
  9. A wife who has strong mental and moral qualities.


Main Ideas:
The Proverbs 31 woman's husband desired and approved of her.  I'm sure he wanted to be around her.  He approved of how she spent her time.

The Proverbs 31 woman wasn't just a great wife, she was a great person all around.  She had high moral standards.  I take this to mean that she was honest, hardworking, kind, loving, etc.  I picture her as the embodiment of all the things that christian woman are supposed to be.

The Proverbs 31 woman was chaste.  She didn't stray from her husband. She didn't even put herself in those kind of situations.  She was not the kind of woman who would be messaging old boyfriends on Facebook or casually flirting with strangers.  She kept all of that for her husband.

The Proverbs 31 woman is respected by her husband. Her husband shows her attention.  Her husband WANTS to do things for her.

 The Proverbs 31 woman had the ability and fitness to be a wife.  She knew the things she needed to do and she had the stamina to get it done.

It doesn't say this in the passage but I'm sure the Proverbs 31 woman was always trying to figure out ways that she could improve or do something better.

The Proverbs 31 woman was a good person, everything she did was good. The Proverbs 31 woman was outstanding.  She wasn't just a normal a wife, she was like a super wife.









To do my research I generally use:

The Women's Devotional Bible by Zondervan
Unger's Bible Handbook
Hebrew-Greek Keyword Study Bible
The Zondervan NIV Study Bible

The quotations above were taken from the Hebrew-Greek Keyword Study Bible.






Introduction To Me and Why I'm Doing This Experiment


A Little Bit About Me:
My name is Lauren.
I'm 23.
I have been married for almost 3 years.
I have a 2 year old baby girl.
I am currently staying home full-time with my daughter.
I'm attending a community college to get my Associate's in communications.
I plan on transferring to a university next fall to get my Bachelor's in communications.
I have a great love for books and reading.
I live in North Carolina.

Why I'm Doing This Experiment:
I'm doing this experiment because I want to be a better wife and mother.  I also want to please God in the way that I tackle my daily roles.  Things aren't bad in my marriage but they could probably be better.  The passion that I have for my husband is less than it used to be.  I still love my husband with my whole heart but I just feel like our relationship is different.  I want to put the passion back in my marriage.  I also want my husband to think I'm the greatest thing ever!!  I never want to look back on my life and wish I was a better mother or wife.  I want to start implementing this stuff now BEFORE our marriage starts to get hard.

I struggle with depression and I can be very moody.  Before I got the idea to do this experiment, my husband and I were going through a rough patch.  I was being grumpy constantly.  I wasn't keeping up with cleaning or cooking.  I wasn't being patient and loving with my husband and daughter.  I was miserable and I felt "stuck" at home.  I was frustrated with the way I was feeling because I really feel like God has called me to be at home.  I started to think about all the things I don't like about my husband and everything that would make my life easier.  Then it suddenly hit me.  It was MY fault that I was struggling so much.  Things were strained in my marriage because I wasn't treating my husband with the respect and love he deserves.  My daughter was being extremely fussy and difficult because I wasn't taking the time to play and spend time with her.  I wasn't keeping up with my housework because I was looking at it as a chore instead of as a way to bless my family.  I was frustrated with not making money and helping out the family financially because I started to want things that the world says I should have.

I started praying about my situation and I decided that I should see what the Bible said about being a wife and mother.  I found Proverbs 31 and knew that this was the woman that I wanted to mold my life after.  This woman could do everything! I decided that I would focus on one verse a week and record my experiences.  At the end of the 22 weeks I could look back and see how much things had improved.

I hope you enjoy reading about my journey.  I encourage you to join along and share your experience!